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A Little Bit of Everything

My Weeks in BooksI’m playing a little bit of catch-up on the books I have been reading and it’s hard to look at the collection and come up with any one theme that ties everything together…

The outlier, really, is Devil in the Grove by Gilbert King. I don’t read tons of non-fiction, but I do enjoy learning more about the Civil Rights Movements in the United States and becoming better informed about African American history. When you look at the major players from he Civil Rights era, Thurgood Marshall ranks at the top. When Marshall argued, and won, the Brown versus the Board of Education case in 1954 to the Supreme Court, it overturned Plessy versus Ferguson from 1896, which established the concept of separate but equal. It was an enormous moment for our country. In Devil in the Grove, King helps illustrate that the win was many, many years in the making.

Devil in the Grove focuses on a murder and subsequent arrests, and murders, in Florida. The case, with any twists and turns, is interesting. What was more compelling for me, though, was to learn about Marshall and his approach to justice. He played a long-game. Many times over he went into cases knowing he would lose them but trying to help set precedent for future cases. Trial by trial, he built up to ending the concept of separate but equal. Given the circumstances in which he was working, it’s pretty remarkable that he could maintain that focus.

I wouldn’t gift this book to many people I know. At times it is dry and it is packed full of detail. I passed it on to my father, though, and he was immediately hooked. If you like history and biographies, and especially if you’d like to fill in some gaps in your understanding of contemporary American history, I recommend Devil in the Grove.

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When Zachary Beaver Came to Town by Kimberly Willis Holt is a book I received for free from LibraryThing as part of a celebration of the fifteenth anniversary of the book’s publication. I picked it from my stack of books as something to read because I wanted something very light. The back-of-the-book summary included, “Fatty, fatty, two by four. Can’t get through the kitchen door,” which is mean but pretty much foretold what I could expect from the book. It’s not politically correct. It’s cute. It’s aimed at a very young audience. It’s listed at being for kids ages 10 to 14, which I feel is old given the storyline. But I wanted light and I got light.

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I enjoyed The Giver and was thrilled when I learned it had three companion novels. I’ve only read the first of those, Gathering Blue by Lois Lowry.  I was expecting a story that continued the adventure from The Giver so it took me a bit of time to understand what was happening – that Gathering Blue is it’s own, standalone story. (Or, at least, I think it is!) It’s a modern day parable that reminds me of the Narnia Chronicles. The books aren’t anything alike, but do try to convey lessons.  Lowry isn’t heavy-handed in religious references like C.S.Lewis was, but there is still a sense of right versus wrong, accompanied by magic. I’m thrilled knowing the next two books are sitting near by bed but am trying to limit how fast I read all of the books. Soon, though!

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Some reviews of The Magicians by Lev Grossman talk about the book ripping off, or failing to rise to the greatness of, the Harry Potter books. Having not read those (I know … no lectures, please), I was impressed with how Grossman paid homage to his predecessors. The Lord of the Rings and Narnia Chronicles seemed well-referenced and revered. I spent so much time reading about Narnia and loved Tolkien’s novels when I was younger that reading The Magicians was like visiting somewhere known and comfortable.

I enjoyed it so much and am thrilled it’s part of a trilogy so I can read more about magic and adventures in the land of Fillory.

Devil in the Grove; When Zachary Beaver Came to Town; Gathering Blue; and The Magicians.
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Commemorating Your Travels

Some of my favorite times of each year are the days during which I am on vacation. Vacations are these wonderful periods of time where we get to explore new places, surround ourselves with loved ones, take a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. When I’m not on vacation, I like being able to look forward to my next trip and / or being able to reflect back on past travels.There are lots of ways to commemorate your trips. I have little things that I do and I observe friends with some of their own traditions I wish I’d taken up years ago!

Use Those Photos

If you have your camera or smart phone with you on a trip, chances are you have lots of photographs documenting the time. I always edit them and post them to Flickr to share with friends, but I often go no further. Printing some photos take hang around your house is an obvious way to use vacation photographs. Another one is to create items with the images. For my most recent trip to Nepal, I ordered magnets from PicStick. This way I can have the images doing double duty on my fridge – cheering my up by reminding me of fun times and holding up the week’s grocery list.

My PicStick magnets are commemorating a recent trip to Nepal.
When I see my PicStick magnets on the fridge, it makes me smile, remembering a good vacation.

Expand a Collection

Some friends of mine buy a Christmas ornament every time they go away on vacation. They’ve been together more than ten years so now their Christmas tree is loaded with good memories. Why didn’t I start something like this years ago?! Another woman I know collects sand from each beach she visits. At home she has small jars carefully labelled with the names of the beaches and the days she got to walk in their sand. Other people buy shot glasses, key chains or figurines.

Friends buy ornaments from each vacation destination. Their Christmas tree documents their travels over the years!

Buy Visible Souvenirs for Your Home

On each trip Wonder Boy and I go on, we buy plenty of junk or things we know won’t last long, like the saffron we purchased in Nepal. We also try to get something we can display in our house somewhere. It doesn’t need to be big and it’s okay if we’re the only ones who notice it. Every time I walk past out kitchen and I see the tiny stockings on the door, I smile and remember Ecuador. When I see the little scooter made out of recycled cans on our mantel, I remember walking down dusty streets in Ghana. Walking underneath the little hats mobile in our living room takes me back to Vietnam. That visual queue is all I need. (Also, none of the items I just mentioned cost more than $5.)

In Nepal we might have gone a little bonkers, coming back with many things for our house. Souvenir shopping there was like walking into a country-sized World Market where almost everything was my taste…

When I see the little scooter made out of recycled cans on our mantel, I remember walking down dusty streets in Ghana.

Create a Travel Display

My friend Outside has a bookcase where she displays mementos from her travels. She aims for things that are smaller in size but represent the place well. My godmother had similar system, but she dedicated an entire room to the display, calling it her travel room.

The travel display Outside keeps to commemorate her travels.
Photo by Outside

How do you commemorate your travels?


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How To Pet a Goat

A Lesson in Proper Goat Petting TechniqueMany people approach petting a goat much like you would pet a cat. They start near the head and brush their hand lightly over the goats fur, moving in the same direction as the hair. This is a mistake, mainly because cats are particular animals who demand such specificity and goats eat garbage.

Other people want to pet a goat like they would pet a dog, running their hands furiously over the goats fur and saying, “Who’s a good boy?” This is better in theory than in actuality. While dogs are perpetually happy and excited to hear your ridiculous voice, talking like that to a goat only confused them.

So what to do?

You can successfully pet a goat in four simple steps:

  1. Make your hand into a fist.
  2. Hold your hand vertically, with the clenched index finger on top.
  3. Place your fist firmly between the goats two horns..
  4. Start pushing as hard as you  can, running back and forth slightly, much in the manner if giving a younger sibling a noogie.

That’s it. You are now on your way to successful goat petting.

Authors note: This method has only been tried sparingly. If it doesn’t work for you…. well, sorry!

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Reflecting on Mahatma Gandhi’s Words on His Birthday

Live as if you were to die tomorrow.
Learn as if you were to live forever.

– Mahatma Gandhi

The above quote by Gandhi, who was born this day in 1869, summarizes my perspective on living and learning pretty much perfectly.  Two very short sentences with very big meaning.

Learning? I have that down pretty well. I love to take classes and I try to push myself to read books that teach me about new cultures, places and time periods.

Living like you might die tomorrow is harder though.

When Wonder Boy and I first started dating, he lived by the mantra, “You can sleep when you’re dead.” We’ve long since given that up because I really like sleep. He’s a pretty big fan, too. But the spirit of that, sleeping when you’re dead, is that we shouldn’t make all of our decisions based on a work week. That sometimes having fun means staying out late. Or waking up early.

I don’t think what Wonder Boy was saying is too different from “Live as if you were to die tomorrow.”

Implementing that philosophy in life is difficult because, realistically, sometimes my favorite part of the day is curling up on the couch next to Wonder Boy with dinner in lap and watching The Wire, or whatever our current favorite television series is. If I knew I was going to die the next day, would I do that? Probably not. But it makes me happy so I think its worth doing.

Finding that balance is hard. Seizing life. Enjoying life. Being happy. Sometimes those things are contradictory.

But as a goal towards which to strive, this is pretty good. “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”

Inspirational quote from Mahatma Ghandi.

 

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Examining Families Here and Abroad and Opening Up to the World of Audio Books

My Weeks in Books

It’s a lesson I’ve learned the hard way, but when there is a movie based on a book, I always try to read the book first. Sometimes a book is so good, I just won’t see the movie afterwards at all because I don’t want to alter the image the author has created for me. The main reason, though, is that I don’t want to imagine characters in books as actors instead of who the author describes.This Is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper has been on my To Read list for a while. When I started seeing movie previews, which looked fabulous, I knew I need to get a move on it. On page fourteen of the book, I paused to text my mom. “Don’t see the movie yet! You have to read this book.” Quite the endorsement so early into the book!

Unfortunately, the previews had already done their work and so I read the novel imagining Judd Foxman as Jason Batemen and his siblings as Tine Fey, Corey Stoll and Adam Driver. In this case, I fully endorse the casting for this book adaptation so I didn’t mind how it changed my reading. This Is Where I Leave You was so funny. The family is crazy and neurotic, but in a way that so many of our families are.

Life for me has been a little nuts lately so I haven’t seen the movie version of This Is Where I Leave You yet, but I’ve been assured it’s funny and am looking forward to it sometime soon.

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In my ongoing “research” for travels to Nepal, I read While the Gods Were Sleeping: A Journey Through Love and Rebellion in Nepal by Elizabeth Enslin. I would highly recommend about 90% of this book as a great way to learn about Nepal and, specifically, the status of women in that country. The author lived there for a period of time and had a traumatic childbirth experience that she uses to tie together the beginning and ending of the book. Fail. I slogged through the beginning, wondering what it had to do with anything. I skimmed the end. I think it was meant to be some powerful insight into women in Nepal versus the US but it missed the mark.

The rest of the book, though? Ach! Loved it. Enslin lives with her extended family in a relatively small town and discusses some of the rituals and festivals taking place in Nepal. I was especially interested in the practices around women and menstruation, which looks weird now that I’ve typed it, but was actually pretty interesting. If you want some anthropological reading or are planning a trip to Nepal, check out While the Gods Were Sleeping. Just be forewarned about the first 10 or so pages and the last 20ish.

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I’ve caught up on too many of my podcasts, by which I mean I have gone back and listened to all past episodes. While I try and discover some new ones to check out, I thought I would give audio books a try. Scholastic shared a listing of places where you can get free audio books and I’m starting with some classic Sherlock Holmes. The first book was A Study in Scarlet by Arthur Conan Doyle. I think I used to read Sherlock Holmes in grade school. I definitely read a lot of Agatha Christie then, so maybe I’m confusing the two.

A Study in Scarlet is good but I just kept thinking what a conceited bastard Sherlock was the whole time. I’m hoping that doesn’t hold true for future books or that I get over it. I like listening to story lines while I drive and do monotonous chores around the house. It helps the time move faster! As a first attempt, I think audio books might work as a good podcast alternative for me.

At the end of the book, which I downloaded from Project Gutenberg, it launched straight away into a story about Mormons. I’m not sure if that was a mistake or a thinly veiled attempt at proselytizing… But free is free.

This is Where I Leave You, While The Gods Were Sleeping and A Study in Scarlet.
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