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When People Notice

A friend of mine recently returned from a trip to Denmark where he visited Legoland Billund. he brought me back some postcards, which is super sweet. And the thing that I am touched by is not that he saw something and thought to being it thousands of miles back to me. It’s that he saw a cool paper product and knew I would like it. It’s a hard thing to explain to people: I like paper. I love paper. I think I sat for too long by graphic designers at work who would smell paper. I don’t smell it but I do appreciate high quality paper and well crafter paper goods.

It will be a while before I actually use these postcards, but I’m so happy and honored to have them!

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Gifts

I love giving gifts. This is not to say I am good at gift giving. I have given several duds and spearheaded some huge group-gift flops.

Two of my favorite people to give gifts to are my nephews. The younger one is trickier. He is still really young and we all joke that all he really wants for a gift is a hug. (That’s probably not too inaccurate.) The older nephew is five-years-old. He’s full of energy and spunk and has all of the independent spirit that accompanies being the oldest child. I consider it a personal challenge to give him gifts that get him excited. A while back I gave him leftover change from different trips. The handful of large coins probably amounted the equivalent of 50 cents. But to him, it was priceless. For his birthday, Wonder Boy and I got him a wallet and put some bills from past trips in it. Maybe it was more like $1.50 this time? When he opened it one of his friends yelled out, “Colored money!” (I bet that kid gets super excited when his parents play Monopoly.)

Being an aunt has lots of perks and I still think it’s super cute every time I’m called Aunt Kate. But one of my favorite parts is giving awesome gifts.

I think this stems from having an awesome Godmother. Mine still gets me a gift every birthday and Christmas and I’m in my 30s! Two of my favorite gifts have been from my godmother, Fish. When I was maybe 7 or 8 she got me a camera. It was the real deal and came in a camera bag. I can guarentee you I took some terrible photos with it but had a great time doing it. A few years later Fish outdid herself by getting me a crimping iron. But this was no ordinary crimper. It didn’t put boring crimps into your hair. It put stars and hearts in it. Practically speaking, this was crazy because hair moves to much to keep shapes as specific as start and hearts. But at the age of 10, I thought this was phenomenol.

The crimper below is not the one I had when I was younger. I doubt I would have thought it was nearly so chic if it’d had Powerpuff Girls on it.

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Bad Mood

Today started off as one of those days where as soon as my eyes opened, bad mood. Snarky, cussing at things (in my head!) and not going at all out of my way to be nice. So, to redirect my mood, some good things to focus on:

  • I took pictures of my sister and her beyonce this weekend and they turned out great. Even better was when she kept telling me I looked so arty, like I fit the role of the photographer.
  • On Monday my brother did some work at my house on the neverending bathroom project. When I called to see how he was handling the heat he also reported in on my cats and cracked me up. “Biggie is an a$$hole.” On a later call, “Biggie is a dick.” I’ve been calling him those things ever since because it’s funny and sort of true.
  • In my photography class on Tuesday the greatest thing happened. At the beginning of class we always show our favorite pictures from the prior week to the teacher and he critiques them in front of everyone. It’s super helpful. When he pulled up my pictures I got multiple wows from the class.
  • Yesterday I was doing some final sanding on never-ending bathroom project but also got to use that time to catch up on old podcasts of All Songs Considered. I listened to one about breaking up with bands you like or liked and when one of the hosts revealed his past love of the Lillith Fair contingent of singers, specifically Paula Cole, I laughed my ass off.
  • This morning my sister called me for no reason and it was nice to talk.
  • Over lunch today I went out for some retail therapy and left with a dress that look kapow on me. I also found a pair of flats that fit me and flats almost never fit my narrow feet.

These are all good things! Now bad mood – you must leave.

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Musty and Wonderful

Back when Wonder Boy and I went to Ghana my sister-in-law was nice enough to lend me her Kindle to take with me. It was fully loaded with books, many of the vampire variety, and weighed almost nothing. For a girl who travels with little more than a backpack or two, going electronic for books is a great thing.

All that said, I’m not an e-reader convert. (Still grateful for the loan though!) Do you know what I love best about books? The smell. I love a new book and how it smells of its packaging and the printer. I love when you open an old book and it smells musty. I also like how with a book you can see physical progress as you make your way through pages. Sure, there’s a page count with an e-reader, but it’s not the same.

People in my book club are falling fast to e-readers, an apparently so is everyone else. A Pew Internet study shows that e-read ownership has doubled between November 2010 to May 2011, a period of only 6 months. And I get it. E-readers give you the ability to carry around your entire library in your handbag.

I’m holding out though. This doesn’t mean I won’t cave someday. After all, after years of stalling I did finally get a cell phone. But maybe if I wait long enough e-readers will come with a built in smell of freshly printed paper and must. (Or, and this plays a big role in my avoidance, maybe someday I won’t be working in a profession where I look at a computer all day, which only makes me want to avoid all other screens. After all, that lottery dream could come true, right?)

Until then, I’m hitting up the library and staying on good terms with all of my e-reader connections.

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Reunions

This past weekend was my high school reunion. To celebrate having graduated fifteen years ago.

When my five-year reunion rolled around the scars of high school were still too fresh and I elected not to go. When the ten-year popped up, my school stopped having reunions for individual graduating class and instead had one large reunion for everyone celebrating that year. This struck me as a thinly veiled attempt at raising money and I didn’t go. My fifteen-year reunion was more tempting. The school is still doing the crazy lumped together reunions but girls from my class planned a separate cookout and happy hour for people. That way folks could bring their families and just mingle with people who graduated in 1996.

Then I remembered two very important things:

  1. I don’t remember names well and especially not names of people from high school. Socializing with people from then would just be an illustration of my bad memory.
  2. I keep in touch with very few people from high school because I am friends with very few of the people with whom I went to school. I don’t need to go to a aschool-sanctioned event to see those people!

So last Saturday, the day I would have been awkwardly hanging out with people I haven’t seen in fifteen years, I went to breakfast with one of my best friends from high school, Mart Girl, who was in town from Chicago. We reunited over eggs. And her sister who graduated 2 years behind us was there, too. So it was almost like the lumped together reunion my school was splanning. Only I knew both of these girls names and didn’t have to look like an idiot. And I never had to have fake conversations about kids and husbands and how great everyone looks. Much nicer!

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