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Finally, Motivation to Clean More Often

Wonder Boy and I have been cleaning out our attic. We both sort of hoard thing. I don’t mean in that “I need to be on an intervention television show and there are ten dead cats living in my house but I don’t even know it” sort of way. It’s just that we both have things that we Love. I Love chairs and screen-printed posters. Wonder Boy Loves instruments, especially ones that sound funny.

As time goes on, and we accumulate many a new thing, up to the attic it goes. We always assume that someday the perfect place will present itself for whatever the item it is. It rarely does.

We talk and talk about how we really need to curb the behavior and we never do. The fact is, we invest very little money in the things we squire and we like the hunt for junk and so it goes on. After our recent stint in Costa Rica I think we both became acutely aware, or at least I did, that if we were ever to relocate to someplace awesome, we would need to pare down the things.

For the past several nights we have been up in our attic. Hours go buy as we root through boxes, sorting things into garage sale piles, trash heaps and recycle bins. As is to be expected, there have been some dynamite finds.

Just tonight I found a Christmas card sent to me from one of the train engineers from when I worked at a local amusement park. Based on the average age of the engineers back then, I assume he is long since passed, but seeing that card with the old man handwriting scrawled along the bottom made me smile. I loved the group of retired men who spent their summers teaching little kids around the city to love trains.

Also related to my time at the amusement park was a guide written by two girls I worked with preparing me for the transition from an all-girls high school to a co-ed college. The advice… was ridiculous but funny to read through again.

Wonder Boy’s finds were a little more… prolific. I feel some can’t be shared without his explicit permission, but he found his Alf hand puppet, which is pretty awesome, AND he found his prom tux.

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Elevating My Assets

I’ve known B for nine years now through work and we’ve gotten to be good friends, for which I am grateful. This past fall she competed in her first triathlon (canoeing, running, biking) with her husband and they did really well. Her husband was sweet saying how proud he was her for sticking to her training schedule and doing so well. They were going to do the spring triathlon but her husband found out, after they entered, that he had a conflicting work schedule.

Enter her new partner: Me.
Out team name: Elevating Our Assets

I have done this particular triathlon before and I finished, though not particularly well. I have never used an actual training schedule for any athletic event but I always finish, even if it is with some difficulty. I explained this to B so she immediately sent me her training schedule.

HOLY MOLY PEOPLE. Since then I have been on an active campaign to set expectations. I’ll do more than my fair share in canoeing, suck a little at running and make up for running when I get on my bike. She acts okay with it but is still training with zealous that I feel guilty for not having. So we shall see, I may have to step it up a bit.

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We Are Barbie Girls

My sister has this awesome handmade piece of jewelry. It’s a glass heart pendant that is a mix of sweet and twisted and I love it. The woman who made the jewelry is having a jewelry party. I was invited but legitimately cannot go, which is just as well because jewelry parties rank right up their with baby and wedding showers. That said, I asked if I could buy a pendant like my sister’s.

“What if we do a trade?’ the lady asked. “I’ll make you jewelry and you make my daughter a Barbie cake for her sixteenth birthday.” We agreed.

A note to make this sixteen-year-old’s birthday cake sound normal. Apparently many years ago the jewelry lady made a Barbie cake for daughter #1. Daughter #2 never got one and has complained since. Sixteen is her year.

A note about this barter plan. My sister and I are SUCKERS.

I attempted to make the cakes and it was a disaster. Night two went much better but all told I went through six boxes of cake mix and about 2 dozen eggs. Yikes!

Last night my sister came over for decorating. It took about 3 hours but WE LOVE IT – the final results are fabulous.

My sister said, “I feel like this is what moms do now — make cake’s like these for their daughters. I won’t do this again.” And then that’s when I pointed out why having aunts is so nice. And she stopped asking my why I wasn’t popping out babies.

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Hot Yogurt

My sisters and I have been following a web site, Groupon.com, watching out for good deals and celebrating the thrifty women we are. A recent coupon purchase got us all five classes at a workout facility. The first one we tried was hot yoga.

Holy moly people!

The three of us pulled our mats to a far corner of the room, hoping to remain mostly unnoticed. The instructor, of course, noticed us immediately. She spoke to use about our skill level (none) and about pacing ourselves (as if any of us had a choice in the matter). The class got off to an okay start, blending my superior abilities in flexibility and balance.

I did my best and was just find with turning real, fancy positions into basic lunches that stretched my leg muscles. The sweat was still pouring off my body so I felt good. At some point I had no idea what was going on so lifted my head to look around. As soon as I did I promptly fell to my butt and watch, slack-jawed, as people around their room balanced on their heads. What was this class? How did we, beginners, end up in a head-balancing class?!?

Overall the class can be graded a FAIL. I pulled something in my lower back, which feels find now but lead to a few embarrassing tears in class. (Despite what my sisters might say now that I’ve told them I’ve cried, you could not tell I was crying because the tears blended right in with the sweat droplets.) The day following the class sister 1 had sore hips, sister 2 and sore neck and I had a sore butt and ribs.

We’ve quickly ruled out hot yoga. But the thing is, I was intrigued. And I will try again. Obviously the next attempt will be a beginners lass, which would be MUCH more appropriate. And then maybe I can thread my head through my legs!

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Wild Alice

The last bit has been rough for me. I’ve lost one of the people who has influenced me the most growing up. And the thing of it is, I can’t be too sad. She had a wonderful, long life. And knowing that helps a little, now, and will help a lot, later. But for the time being I feel this great hole.

My grandmother was born in 1914. If she had lived only four more weeks she would have been 96-years-old. When she was 18 she ran away from home, temporarily changed her name and worked in an ice cream parlour. She later reconciled with her family and reverted back to her real name but she stay in Cincinnati.

Through a friend, Wild Alice was set up with my grandfather and they were married for 67 years. They had 7 children, 19 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren. Grandma started out as this very industrious lady, making clothing for her family. Asher sisters and, later, her children grew up and she had more time on her hands, she started to learn creative crafts: needlework, paper tole, knitting, ceramics, etc. When her hands failed her, she turned to technology, becoming a giant nerd. She was my oldest friend on Facebook. (Her account has not been turned off so she still is.)

What I’ve learned from my grandma cannot be summer up in a blog post. No matter the time I spent on it, I think it would end up trite and not honor the wonderful person she was. But these two themes are important:

  1. Stay busy and active.
    Neither my grandma nor I ever believed the saying “idle hands are the devil’s tools” but I know she thought you should be busy at all times, using your time wisely and not just wasting life. She had a wonderfully long life and because she was always so busy she accomplished so much.
  2. Never stop learning.
    I feel as if in every study I hear or read, they point to one aspect of living a long life being challenging your mind. If that holds up to be true, then my grandma is exhibit A. It is this aspect I hope to most carry on. It helped keep my grandmother engaged and interested in life and other people engaged and interested in being with her. And it kept her mind sharp so that she could make her own end-of-life decisions, which so many older people do not get to do.
This is rambling. Not one of my better posts.
I loved my grandma dearly. I miss her.
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