It’s cute and it works for everyone and my new nephew will likely call them the same things. But for me, it’s a new layer of confusion.
I now contend with labels of Ci-Ci, Doo-Doo, Mamaw, Papaw, Poppy, Nana, Pa, Gi-Gi and more. Whatever happened to grandma and grandpa?
What’s wrong with being called Grandma and Grandpa?
In 1988 there was an episode of The Cosby Show where the oldest daughter, Sondra, and her husband, Elvin, give birth to twins. The couple’s mothers, Clair Huxtable and Francine Tibideaux, decide that the word “grandmother” sounds too old. They’d prefer something more grand like “Mother: the Sequel.”
In my memory, that’s when this labelling thing went south. Grandmother and Grandfather, or, conversely, Grandma and Grandpa, don’t sound old. In fact, they sound about as grand as it gets since it is right there in the name.
And the common nomenclature comes in handy when talking with kids. I don’t look forward to the day when I give my niece some piece of furniture passed down to me or my nephew a piece of art I’ve inherited, and when they ask who it’s from, I say, “my grandma” and they look back at me with a blank face.
Cheryl Pollock Stober
Both sets of grandparents for my children use Grandma and Grandpa, but they don’t often use their names along with it. This does make life confusing, as it is an endless series of “which Grandma” questioning. I’d have thought by ages 6 and 10 that they would realize who I meant by context, but it hasn’t worked out so far. Nevertheless, the situation is preferable to having to use other terminology!
Kate
Growing up we called everyone Grandma and Grandpa , unless to their face, in which case we dropped the last name. It’s funny the things you accept as universal until you see otherwise.
Twindaddy
To my children, my parents are Grandpa and Grandma. They have different names for their other grandparents, though.