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Month: January 2014

What’s Making Me Happy

There a feature at the end of each episode of Pop Culture Happy Hour, my current obsession, called “What’s Making Me Happy.” I love that the podcast ends on a happy note and am trying to end my weeks with that same happy note.

Because my goal is just to highlight something positive, and not necessarily write long prose, I’m adding the item to the Facebook page only.

I encourage you to like my Facebook page to check out what’s making me happy!

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The Circle by Dave Eggers Is a Chance to Reflect on Technology Use

Have you read The Circle by Dave Eggers? I just finished and am still reeling a bit.The basic storyline is that Mae Holland gets a job at The Circle, this broad-reaching company based in California. If I didn’t know better, I would say she was working for Google, though Eggers states early in the novel that the fictional Circle purchased companies like Facebook and Google. So, as a reader, we have to assume that The Circle is bigger than those two combined.

Mae joins the company at a point when she is grateful for almost anything. Her last job was miserable and unsatisfying. So when her new bosses reprimand her for not participating in optional weekend activities, for not updating online groups with her daily (hourly? by-the-minute?) thoughts, she accepts blame. When her company installs an ever-expanding number screens at her workstation, with the expectation that she monitor each all while conducting surveys via her headset, she happily complies. She even agrees that sharing online with co-workers should be prioritized over family emergencies.

I find the world Eggers builds beyond creepy. And mainly because I think we already live in that world.

I am no techniphobe. I work in technology. I’ve been blogging for more than 10 years, sport accounts on Facebook, Flickr, Twitter and Tumblr, though my use varies widely. I sell things on Etsy, Amazon and eBay and make more purchases than I care to admit online. Through BzzAgent I share my feelings about various consumer goods. I used to use Instagram and briefly had a Google+ account, but was too overwhelmed by all of the feeds I was maintaining and routinely checking. With all of those accounts, I am continually aware of how much I share.

Online advertising makes it clear that no matter how careful I am, what I do is tracked. A recent hunt for specific snow boots resulted in ads for me on Facebook, Amazon and online searches all showing the same boots I had just been admiring online. Creepy! Through work and industry articles, I know that advertisers will say users appreciate ads that target them specifically. Maybe some users, but there are others of us who see targeted ads as an invasion of privacy. Or just an acknowledgement that there is no privacy online.

The idea of no online privacy, or no privacy at all, is a recurring theme through The Circle. So is the idea of sharing, or, I would posit, over-sharing. I see the value in reviewing products, much like I am reviewing this book. It helps other people make more informed purchases. It’s why I review purchases and sellers on Amazon. Why I bother to review things for BzzAgent (though free products are a big motivation there). It’s why I periodically join Angie’s List. I like keeping up with friends and organizations on social media. I do think things can cross a line, though.

If a person posts more than 10 updates a day on Facebook, I’ve likely unsubscribed to their feed. It starts to feel like spam. If I person tweets there every move, I stop following. If Instagram photos serve only to detail mundane details… well, who cares? I definitely don’t.

I also see all of this online sharing as being detrimental to our social skills, relationships and perception of self. I have plenty of friends whose kids I have seen / met maybe once and yet I feel okay with that because I’m totally up to date on their lives. Why call a sick friend to wish them well when I can post something on their Facebook wall at my own convenience and be done with the interaction in 10 seconds? Catching up in person is often awkward because there are so many “known” details from online posts. Not often acknowledged is that we only post online what we want others to know. So an in-person meeting that uses only online posts as the grounding for a conversation misses much of the nitty gritty details, the negative, the ugly facts we all have in our lives – the facts that you share with real friends but maybe not online ones.

Not too long ago I watched a (high school-aged) acquaintance freak out when they sent a text, saw it had been read but didn’t get an immediate reply. There was an expectation of immediacy. That same expectation was placed on Mae at The Circle. It’s weird to me. I mean, I like immediate gratification. Who doesn’t? But it wasn’t that long ago that when we called someone, we were just as likely to get an answering machine as them. Or that there was no such thing as voice-mail or an answering machine and you just had to keep trying until you caught the person at home.

There’s some spontaneity that is lost with technology as well. My mom mentioned to me that with cell phones, she knows that when she calls me she will always get me. In the time of landlines, when she would have called me, she might have spoken with me but she might also have talked with Wonder Boy. Now the two of them rarely speak. They still have a good relationship so this isn’t hurting things, but is it helping?

There are a lot of really awesome uses for technology detailed throughout The Circle. Eggers does a good job of presenting people with an alternate, but familiar, view of technology so that maybe people stop and pause and think about what they do online.

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Animal Memo Holders – A Pinterest Inspired Project

I’ve been on Pinterest for the past two years and I’ve gotten heaps of ideas from the site (as well as loads of guilt about what I’m not accomplishing). For me, most craft projects I try out need to meet a two requirements before I’ll try them out: cheap and easy. My most recent trial came thanks to a pin linking Sugar and Cloth about animal memo holders.

I made a series of these memo holders in different colors and it went great. All the supplies you need are a plastic animal, a dowel rod, an alligator clip, some spray paint in the color and finish of your choice and some glue. I sprayed the animal, spray a length of the dowel rod the same color. Then I drilled a hole into the top of the animal and stuck the dowel rod right in. (It was a tight fit so I didn’t even use glue.) I then glued the alligator clip to the dowel rod and voila!

I’m using mine to hold my new year’s resolutions for the year but they they would work great for hold recipes, to do lists, photographs and more!

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Year In Review: My Books of 2013

What follows is a list of what I read in 2013, in reverse chronological order. Not all of the books were great, but there were definitely some gems among the bunch. Overall, I consider it a great year for reading. I’ve marked a few in bold I think would be worth reading, in case you’re planning your reading list for 2014.

  1. The Valley of Amazement by Amy Tan
  2. Special Topics in Calamity Physics by Marisha Pessl
  3. Stolen Lives: Twenty Years in a Desert Jail by Malika Oufkir
  4. Beethoven’s Hair: An Extraordinary Historical Odyssey and a Scientific Mystery Solved by Russell
  5. Allegiant by Veronica Roth
  6. The Man From St. Petersburg by Ken Follett
  7. The Sandcastle Girls by Chris Bohjalian
  8. The Guy Not Taken: Stories by Jennifer Weiner
  9. Sorority Sisters by Claudia Welch
  10. American Dervish by Avad Akhtar
  11. Everything Is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer
  12. The Doula by Bridget Boland
  13. The Last Time They Met by Anita Shreve
  14. Rescue by Anita Shreve
  15. The Paradise Guest House by Ellen Sussman
  16. We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves by Karen Joy Fowler
  17. The Lowland by Jhumpa Lahiri
  18. Orange Is the New Black: My Year in a Women’s Prison by Piper Kerman
  19. Women Heroes of World War II: 26 Stories of Espionage, Sabotage, Resistance, and Rescue by Kathryn J. Atwood
  20. Flight Behavior by Barbara Kingsolver
  21. The Middlesteins by Jami Attenberg
  22. Margot by Jillian Cantor
  23. The Yonahlossee Riding Camp for Girls by Anton DiSclafani
  24. Behind the Beautiful Forevers: Life, Death, and Hope in a Mumbai Undercity by Katherine Boo
  25. This Is How You Lose Her by Junot Díaz
  26. Nothing Daunted: The Unexpected Education of Two Society Girls in the West by Dorothy Wickenden
  27. The Engagements by J. Courtney Sullivan
  28. The Choice by Nicholas Sparks
  29. Visitation Street by Ivy Pochoda
  30. Let’s Explore Diabetes with Owls by David Sedaris
  31. A Mercy by Toni Morrison
  32. And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini
  33. Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan
  34. The Fields by Kevin Maher
  35. Purity by Jackson Pearce
  36. Arcadia by Lauren Groff
  37. Driving Sideways by Jess Riley
  38. The Other Typist by Suzanne Rindell
  39. This Side of Jealousy (The Innocents, #2) by Lili Peloquin
  40. Calling Me Home by Julie Kibler
  41. Conversations with Mom: An Aging Baby Boomer, in Need of an Elder, Writes to Her Dead Mother by Betsy Robinson
  42. Mary and Lou and Rhoda and Ted: And all the Brilliant Minds Who Made The Mary Tyler Moore Show a Classic by Jennifer Keishin Armstrong
  43. Chronology of an Egg by Peter Tieryas
  44. A Place at the Table by Susan Rebecca White
  45. The Girl Who Would Be King by Kelly Thompson
  46. Nine Years Under: Coming of Age in an Inner-City Funeral Home by Sheri Booker
  47. A Different Blue by Amy Harmon
  48. The House Girl by Tara Conklin
  49. The First Rule of Swimming by Courtney Angela Brkic
  50. Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter
  51. The End of Sex: How Hookup Culture is Leaving a Generation Unhappy, Sexually Unfulfilled, and Confused About Intimacy by Donna Freitas
  52. Homeward Bound: Why Women are Embracing the New Domesticity by Emily Matchar
  53. All the Roads That Lead from Home by Anne Leigh Parrish
  54. The Dinner by Herman Koch
  55. Mr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan
  56. A Tale for the Time Being by Ruth Ozeki
  57. Crossing to Safety by Wallace Stegner
  58. Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein
  59. Seating Arrangements by Maggie Shipstead
  60. The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
  61. The Book of Madness and Cures by Regina O’Melveny
  62. The Orphanmaster by Jean Zimmerman
  63. Flash and Bones by Kathy Reichs
  64. Spider Bones by Kathy Reichs
  65. Wonder by R.J. Palacio
  66. Defending Jacob by William Landay
  67. 206 Bones by Kathy Reichs
  68. Devil Bones by Kathy Reichs
  69. Bones to Ashes by Kathy Reichs
  70. Break No Bones by Kathy Reichs
  71. Where Things Come Back by John Corey Whaley
  72. The Age of Miracles by Karen Thompson Walker
  73. Cross Bones by Kathy Reichs
  74. Monday Mourning by Kathy Reichs
  75. Bare Bones by Kathy Reichs
  76. Grave Secrets by Kathy Reichs
  77. Fatal Voyage by Kathy Reichs
  78. Deadly Decisions by Kathy Reichs
  79. Death du Jour by Kathy Reichs
  80. Déjà Dead by Kathy Reichs
  81. Women from the Ankle Down: The Story of Shoes and How They Define Us by Rochelle Bergstein
I had set my goal for the year at 55 books, which I thought was solid. My lesson learned is that should not set reading goals for myself. I get too competitive about the thing and end up reading 81 books in a year. Goodness.

 

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Year in review: 2013

There are definitely parts of 2013 I wish I could erase. But despite some personal challenges, it was a pretty great year. And I accomplished some pretty great things from my 100 list:

  • Had The Features to my house for dinner
  • I saw Neko Case in concert (again)
  • Checked another country off of my list by visiting Bali – only 27 more countries to go towards meeting the goal!
  • I learned to ride the city bus
  • I sent birthday cards out to loved ones all year, many of them homemade
Wonder Boy and I celebrated five years of marriage. We had a blast at my brother’s wedding and then again at my cousin’s wedding. I was able to hold on of my best friend’s new baby and I got to meet the daughter of another good (out of town) friend. I think I made progress towards being a better friend. I definitely tried to spend more time with friends and resist the urge to hole up by myself. I met an author I love and then got to see another one speak. I took a letterpress class. I held an orangutan. I read so many books. I fostered cute kittens. I am more involved in the community than I was a year ago, volunteering at the local modern art museum and as a tutor, as well as at the animal rescue. While I wouldn’t say I have the most healthy lifestyle, it is better than it was a year ago.
Time moves so fast that sometimes it’s easy to forget about things. That’s one thing I like about this blog. It gives me something by which I can review time past and see what all I’ve been able to experience and all of the blessings that have come my way.
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