When my life feels stuck, when I want more but don’t know how to articulate what it is I want or how to go about getting it, I turn to structured classes. They’re a way for me to grow intellectually and creatively, an easy way to meet people and, frankly, a great way for me to check things off my list of goals. It’s my way of spending the summer adding to my collection.
Month: April 2011
To enter the contest, you had to comment on the post with a childhood memory. Normally I don’t blog about my parentals, but this is one of my favorite memories:
When I was a tween I stayed home sick one day and spent the entire day in my parents’ bedroom on their waterbed watching TV. When my dad came home he brought me 1) my favorite movie to watch (Mine, Yours and Ours starring Lucille Ball and Henry Fonda), 2) a king-sized Nestle Crunch bar and 3) some movie star teen magazine. It was completely out of the ordinary, sweet and made me want to be sick more often!
In March of last year there was a blogging event called the Mighty Summit. I read about the event and its attendees, many of whom I admire and read daily, and was inspired. One of the activities they did was to create 100 lists, an act that is almost cliched in the blogging world but which I think has merit. I’ve written before of my intention to create my own 100 list. Since I’ve been working on it for the last year, I thought it might be worthwhile to post what I have so far so I could get to checking things off. I’ve selected these items from personal goals I’ve had over the years as well as cruising the internet. I am not stupid naive enough to consider putting an end date on accomplishing these goal. But I do want to make progress towards doing them all.My list
- See Stevie Wonder in concert, which, of course, must immediately be followed with all of the other people I want to see in concert
- See The Shins in concert
- See Neko Case in concert
- Have The Features to my house for dinner
- See Prince in concert
- Go skinny dipping
- Go to a topless beach, topless
- Watch all of the films in “AFI’s 100 movies … 100 years list”
- Hug Josh Ritter … sober this time
- Play an instrument
- Learn a new language
- Visit Antarctica
- Fly a plane
- Try eating vegan for some period of time … at least a week so that it counts
- Go sailing
- Live in another country
- Go to South by Southwest
- Be a professional gift wrapper (a wealthy one is not necessary and a holiday job in college does not count)
- Publish an article in something people have actually heard of
- Ride a camel
- Learn to sew
- Dance with my husband for no reason at all
- Restore old furniture
- Own an old American car
- Drink beer in a pub in Ireland
- Drink beer from a stein in Germany
- Take a photography class
- Try pottery again
- Go back to school to get another degree and drive people nuts with unnecessary but very wanted education
- Take cooking classes
- Find a truly fulfilling job that doesn’t require wearing a wrist brace
- Listen to 1,000 new bands
- Take each of my nieces and nephews overseas
- Find a career I love
- Host regular parties
- Write thank you notes
- Visit 50 states (Accomplished 42 Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming)
- Visit 50 countries (Accomplished 30: Argentina, Australia, Austria, Cambodia, Canada, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Ecuador, England, France, Germany, Ghana, Greece, Hungary, Indonesia, Malta, Mexico, Morocco, Nepal, New Zealand, Peru, Portugal, Puerto Rico, Scotland, Spain, Sri Lanka, Switzerland, Turkey, USA, Vietnam)
- Meditate
- Retire at 55 (50???)
- Get in shape, be active and have fun doing it
- Keep a reusable bag handy
- Be a better friend
- Get better sleep
- Reduce computer time
- Attend BlogHer
- Reduce TV time
- Keep house filled only with things I love
- Give yoga a shot
- Learn to ride the city bus
- Read all of the books in the BBC Top 100
- Take more photos
- Be a good daughter
- Be appreciative
- Visit Cuba
- Go camping
- Attend a TedX
- Make grand gestures
- Send out a photo Christmas card with cats where most people have kids
- Throw 50 dinner parties
- Own a fabulous and completely impractical car
- Make pasta from scratch
- Update blog daily for at least a month stretch
- Learn to make gnocchi
- Cook every recipe in a cookbook
- Go one month car-free
- Send a birthday card (on time) to everyone in my life for one full year
- Start and finish a 365 photo project
- Cook more
- Initiate more outings with friends
Take glass blowing lessons- Learn to do screenprinting
- Create something using Letterpress
- Send notes on hand-sewed paper
- Volunteer overseas
- Get a photograph published in a magazine
- Go on a pilgrimage
- Rent a ridiculously fancy car – convertible – and drive down the coast
- Achieve my personal weight goal
- Run an half marathon
- Try 30 new cocktails
- Try 60 new beers (more my speed)
- Create a scavenger hunt – or just go on one
- Go indoor rock-climbing
- Leave a waiter or waitress a really big tip, just because
- Create an editorial calendar for my personal, and not professional, use
- Attend a fashion show at Fashion Week
- Visit two national parks to which I’ve never been
- Make my own sushi
- Pay for the person (people) behind me at Starbucks
- Donate hair to locks of love
- Get a wild haircut
- Hug ten people in a day
- Ride a mechanical bull
- Write a book
I see, on average, two concerts a month. I love going to shows. I get pretty good indie cred for the shows I see, in general. Exceptions probably include the 80s cock rock bands I see over the summer, like Def Leppard. There is always one band for which I am surprised by the amount of flack I get for seeing them.
Guster is great live. There are the perfect summer band, and if it’s not summer yet they help you imagine it is. When I tell my hipster friends that I’m headed to a Guster show, they smile as if it’s a good thing but I see their jaws clench up. I don’t get it.
One of the things I most love about Guster shows is that their crowds are awesome. There are always tons of college kids there but the crows also include people in their mid-30s. What makes a band keep some segment of their fan-base from the beginning of them playing but then perpetually stay popular with the the same age group? Ben Folds has the same thing going on. Part of the appeal, I think, is the stoner music. But past that? I have no explanations.
Speaking of stoner music… Last weekend we saw Guster play and it was wonderful. The crowd was better than I ever give Bogart’s credit for and Wonder Boy and I were having a great time. Midway through the show we both headed down to the (disgusting) bathrooms. On our way back we were both hit by it at the same time. The giant wall of pot smoke. Throughout the show it must have been gradually building and we never noticed it. But wow. I haven’t experienced that since a Phish show at the coliseum several years back.
Opening for Guster was Jukebox and the Ghost. Wonder Boy and I saw them play at Midpoint a few years back and Wonder Boy fell in love. I wasn’t completely sold. I heard too much Queen and hints of high school musicals in their music. But this time I thought they were fabulous. Near the end of their set they did a cover of I Love You Always Forever by Donna Lewis*. In addition to being a scarily good rendition, it was hysterical. If you haven’t seen Jukebox and the Ghost, I recommend it.
I also recommend Guster. If you’re too caught up in your hipster status, put on some dark sunglasses so your friends don’t spot you going to the dark side, loosen up and enjoy yourself. As far as I’m concerned, last weekend was the marker for the beginning of summer. And I expect Guster to be around during several hot evening and nights when I’m sitting on my porch drinking a cold beer and listening to good music.
*Have you seen this video before? What the heck?!? Why does she have shoes on her hands?!?
Wonder Boy and I have both recently been subscribed to Rolling Stone, which means we get two issues every week and we have no idea why. It’s not a magazine I’m terribly interested but a recent issue caught my eye, mainly because Rihanna is on the cover wearing an outfit I wore just last week.
So I was flipping through the Rihanna issue and came across this story The Kill Team, which highlights acts of murder occuring by American solders against civilians in Afghanistan. The artice is pretty horrible and while these types of things might occur in every war, they shouldn’t and it’s an awful representation of Americans.
But that’s not the part that gave me pause. In this article, it is explained the soldiers are taking pictures of their kill and sharing the pictures much like you would baseball cards. Disturbing right? Then Rolling Stone published the pictures to show just how awful they are. The New Yorker also did this when the Abu Ghraib torture stories broke. Seeing pictures of tortured people … dead people … it’s shocking. But Rolling Stone went one step further. They published an image of an Afghani man’s head being held up by an American soldier. Just the head.
And here’s the thing – the fact that anyone took this picture is heinous. But to publish the picture? It’s exploiting the awful act. And I sat there, slack-jawed looking at it and thinking, “Would they have published the picture if the head was from an American?”
I don‘t think so.