Kate's Point of View

The Product of Creative Frustration

Month: November 2004

ODB

By now I am sure you have heard of the passing of Old Dirty Bastard yesterday of what looks to be a heart attack. Now I know you have heard me talk about my love of Old Dirty Bastard here on the pages of WOTD before, but now I feel it necessary to explain why.

Some music is mere notes and words strung together. Some is a feeling. For me, ODB is a moment in time. Well, two in fact.

The first was at OU at a bar my friends and I went to sometimes. I know we went there on several occasions to drink (Rick and Dave with their mixed drinks with whipped cream and me with my beer) and dance. While I have bits of memories of several nights, all that stands out is me and my friends dancing to Got Your Money by Old Dirty Bastard. It’s a raunchy song that reeks of sexual energy. But it’s how I remember my friends. All bumpin’ and grindin’ to some good tunes, you know?

The other moment encapsulated by ODB is at my parents’ house when my sister had some friends over. I don’t know what the occasion was or who all was there, but I remember very distinctly watching my sister Anna and her friend dance to Got Your Money. They hooked their knees and held on to each other’s waists and grooved their way around the room.

So ODB might be gone, but thanks to him I have these little moments of happiness burned into me forever and in that he’s still here.

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Stated

A few years back my friend Jenny and I created singles ads for AOL. We did mostly as a lark and would laugh over the funny inquiries our ads generated like “I want to be up front about the fact that I am married. But, I am looking.”

The best though were people who would respond and include links to their own personal web sites – that’s where there was a mother load of ridiculous stuff. There were two boys in particular who stand out. One was a model and included all of his headshots on his web site to impress the ladies. (Didn’t work.) The other guys had just random facts about him and his friends – it was a very fun site actually. But the best part was under his bio where he listed his nicknames. The best one: Straight Guy.

Okay, so here’s the thing. I think if you have a nickname like straight guy, you probably aren’t. Is that cynical of me? Sorry, I just think it’s dumb.

What got me thinking about all of this was a license plate I saw the other day that read “MALE 5.” First of all, I think that’s a dumb personalized plate. Secondly, here’s my theory on what it means: “Hey World! It took me five tries, but the surgeries finally worked and now I am a male!!!”

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